The Parenting 411 Podcast

The New Reality with Money After Divorce

For this conversation, I just had to bring Donna Cates back. You'll recall she's a financial expert and certified divorce financial analyst who knows her stuff. Our conversation is short but loaded with nuggets divorcing moms need to know. We talk about the emotional and practical impacts of divorce on children, focusing on how parents can manage financial disparities and communicate effectively to maintain stability for their kids.
Donna offers insights on handling alimony and child support, emphasizing the importance of predictability and creating positive experiences. The discussion highlights tools like Our Family Wizard to facilitate co-parenting communication. Tune in for valuable advice on leading with wisdom and fairness during challenging times.
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• Website: MoneyMattersWealth.com
• Social: Money Matters Wealth Solutions (and “Donna Cates”)
 
CHAPTERS
00:00 Welcome
00:33 Special Invitation: Ministry of Mom Experience
01:06 Introducing Financial Expert Donna Cates
01:53 Discussing Lifestyle Adjustments with Children
04:20 Understanding Child Support and Alimony
07:19 Ongoing Practices for Co-Parenting
08:44 Financial Truths Children Need to Hear
10:51 Connecting with Donna Cates
13:11 Final Thoughts
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Divorce and Money Matters

Divorce can feel like the ground shifts under your feet—emotionally and financially. In this episode of The Parenting 411 Podcast, I talk with Donna Cates, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), about the money decisions that can shape your next chapter—and your child’s future. Donna breaks down the most common financial blind spots women face during divorce, what to gather before negotiating anything, and how to stay practical when emotions are running high.
You’ll also hear smart guidance around child-related expenses, child support realities, 529 college savings, lifestyle changes, and how to find support even when you feel you “can’t afford it.”
What You’ll Learn
• The #1 financial blind spot women face early in divorce
• Why the person who initiates divorce often has an advantage—and how to catch up
• The key documents to gather (and why doing it early can save attorney fees)
• How to manage emotions without letting them derail financial decisions
• Child support vs. “real life” kid expenses: extracurriculars, tutoring, trips, instruments, etc.
• How to protect your child’s future through smart planning (including 529 accounts)
• The truth about maintaining the same lifestyle after divorce—and what to do instead
• Practical ways to pay for professional support Key Takeaways
• Don’t negotiate in the dark. Knowing what you own, owe, earn, and spend changes everything.
• Divorce is emotional—but your decisions must be informed.
• Put kids’ extras in writing. Understand that child support often covers basics only.
• Plan for two households. Two fridges, two sets of clothes, duplicated costs—it adds up fast.
• Support exists. Donna shares resources, including a free virtual workshop for women.
Connect with Donna:
• Website: MoneyMattersWealth.com
• Social: Money Matters Wealth Solutions (and “Donna Cates”)
Chapters
00:00 Welcome to the Parenting 411 Podcast
00:33 Special Invitation: Ministry of Mom Experience
01:06 Navigating Divorce: Emotional and Financial Challenges
01:49 Introducing Donna Cates: Financial Guidance for Women
02:55 Understanding Financial Blind Spots in Divorce
06:16 Gathering Key Financial Documents
14:44 Protecting Your Children's Financial Future
21:18 Common Mistakes in Maintaining Lifestyle Post-Divorce
24:08 First Steps to Gain Clarity and Confidence
26:44 Resources and Support for Women
31:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
 
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Wellness for Parents in a Wired World

In this episode, I discuss navigating the complexities of modern motherhood and maintaining wellness in a technology-driven world. I share my personal experiences and offer valuable tips for parents on how to embrace technology without letting it overwhelm your lives. My key points include the importance of setting boundaries, leveraging technology as a tool for convenience, protecting family privacy, and balancing screen time with offline activities. By the end of the episode, you will gain insight into making technology an ally in their wellness journey. 
 
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
01:00 Embracing Technology in Parenting
01:51 The Evolution of Technology in Our Lives
03:45 Managing Technology for Family Wellness
05:55 Setting Boundaries with Technology
08:07 Balancing Screen Time and Real Life
08:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
 
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Breaking Generational Patterns for Intentional Parenting Today

For this conversation, I sit down with licensed professional counselor and intuitive healer Marsha Evans to discuss the complexities of parenting and the importance of breaking unhealthy generational cycles. We dive into the pressures parents face, particularly in highly competitive environments, and offers practical advice on how to let children evolve into their true selves. We also talk about the power of family systems, handling teenage rebellion, and the importance of parents doing the inner work to avoid passing down harmful patterns. Marsha also introduces tools like genograms to help parents understand their family history and offers actionable steps for creating a healthier, more intentional family dynamic.
 
CHAPTERS
00:00 Welcome 02:15 Letting Your Child Evolve
05:48 Understanding Your Child's World
08:46 Generational Patterns and Family Systems
17:23 Creating a Parenting Philosophy
27:20 Recognizing and Embracing Your Child's Personality
35:21 The Impact of Parental Background on Parenting
37:16 Creating New Family Patterns and Legacies
43:50 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Parents
49:28 Conclusion and Additional Resources
 
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When to Worry: A Parental Guide to Child Emergencies

In this episode, I welcome Dr. Kailey Buller, a double board-certified physician in Emergency and Family Medicine and a mom of two, to discuss common childhood illnesses and injuries. Dr. Buller provides invaluable insights on when to seek emergency care versus managing at home, shares the ABCs of emergency situations, and explains common scenarios parents face, such as handling fevers, injuries, and respiratory issues. She also highlights her decision chart and ABC guide for simplifying those critical, anxiety-filled moments. Additionally, We share personal anecdotes, advice on preparedness, and an emphasis on equipping parents with the knowledge to confidently navigate their child's health crises.
 
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction to the Parenting 411 Podcast
01:23 Introducing Dr. Kailey Buller
02:41 Common Parental Concerns: Injuries and Illnesses
07:23 Recognizing Serious Symptoms: The ABCs
11:19 Managing Fevers and When to Seek Help
13:53 Emergency Room Visits: What Parents Need to Know
15:00 Understanding Lacerations and When to Seek Help
17:29 Concussion Protocols and Head Injuries
23:32 Top Symptoms That Require Immediate ER Visits
25:13 Final Thoughts and Resources for Parents
 
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Raising Whole Humans: Identity, Letting Go, and Parenting Young Adults

In this episode, I welcome award-winning actress, career coach, and motivational speaker, Lydia Nicole, to delve into the journey of parenting young adults. Lydia shares her personal experiences of balancing a demanding career in the entertainment industry while raising her daughter. She discusses the critical lessons she learned about maintaining identity beyond achievements, the importance of mentoring over controlling, and the value of reinvention without losing oneself. Lydia also highlights the significance of community support and intentional parenting. This powerful conversation is filled with insights and practical tips for mothers in every stage of their parenting journey.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Welcome 03:21 The Importance of a Supportive Village06:00 Parenting Without a Manual10:46 Balancing Career and Parenting16:13 Challenges of Raising a Child in the Entertainment Industry18:10 The Importance of Child Advocacy on Set22:51 Instilling Team Spirit in Children23:48 Building Confidence from a Young Age25:12 Teaching Responsibility and Independence28:03 Navigating School Challenges31:11 Letting Go as a Parent32:01 Legacy and Mentorship39:04 Following Lydia Nicole's Work39:47 Final Thoughts on Parenting
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Raising Readers: Building Confidence Through Literacy

Ever worried your child isn't a reader or is quietly falling behind? This conversation will speak right to your heart. Join me as I sit down with Dr. Andrew Vassall (Dr. V), an educator, children's author, literacy consultant, and 2023 Teacher of the Year semi-finalist. With over 20 years in the classroom and his own experience navigating a learning disability, Dr. V shares what really helps underachieving and discouraged readers find their footing and their voice. Discover how diverse, relatable stories can change how children see themselves, and learn simple things families can do at home to build confidence, competence, and a lifelong love of reading. Learn more about Dr. V at https://drandrewvassall.com. 
 
CHAPTERS
0:00 Introduction & Welcome
1:00 Understanding the Literacy Gap
6:00 What Parents Need to Know About Reading Development
13:48 Building Trust with Struggling Readers
16:53 The Power of Representation in Books
19:33 Navigating Book Bans & DEI Challenges
22:40 The Black Crayon: Self-Identity for All Kids
24:30 Parent & Student Reactions to The Black Crayon
26:13 Practical Tips for Parents of Struggling Readers
37:26 Daily Habits for Raising Strong Readers
39:41 The Foundation: Trust & Communication
44:33 Integrating Reading Into Daily Life
50:34 Closing & Resources
 
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Digital Detox: Reconnecting Teens with the Real World

What happens to your relationship with your teen when screens start replacing real connection?
In this episode, I sit down with youth development expert Kirsten McCormick for a timely and deeply practical conversation about helping teens reconnect beyond their devices.
We dig into what’s really going on beneath the surface of constant screen use—and how parents can intentionally guide teens toward confidence, resilience, and authentic relationships in the real world. Kirsten shares insights from her immersive Teen Connect Adventures programs and her upcoming book, Unplugged to Reconnect, offering concrete ways families can counter digital overload with meaningful, engaging alternatives.
You’ll walk away with:
Practical strategies to help teens build real-world social skills
A fresh perspective on balancing technology without constant power struggles
Encouragement to parent with purpose while strengthening values and connection at home
This episode is a powerful reminder that unplugging isn’t about taking something away—it’s about giving our teens something better.
I’d love to hear from you—what has helped your family unplug and truly connect with your teens? Share your thoughts and keep the conversation going.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Helping Teens Build Real-World Connections
02:47 - Kirsten's Journey into Teen Outreach
06:21 - Supporting Teens in Building Connections
09:10 - Cultural Differences in Teen Technology Use
11:19 - Influence of Parental Tech Use on Teens
19:57 - Effects of Passive Entertainment on Teens
23:08 - Navigating Peer Pressure to Stay Offline
26:30 - Gender Differences in Technology Use
32:00 - School's Role in Supporting Teens
38:08 - Following Kirsten's Work
38:50 - Final Thoughts on Teen Engagement
 
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Parenting Under Pressure: Mind and Money Stress

Parenting under pressure is a reality for many families today. In this episode, I explore the profound connection between mental health and financial stress, two challenges shaping modern family life. Rising costs, emotional strain, and the invisible mental load of caregiving can feel overwhelming, but you're not alone.
Tune in as I share valuable insights on purposeful parenting, practical strategies, and resilience to help you navigate these challenges while raising children with faith and authenticity. Discover how community support, mindfulness, and prioritizing self-care can make a difference for your family. Your struggles are valid. With intention and support, you can build a stronger foundation for our families.
Let’s face these challenges head-on and create a legacy of love and resilience. Share your thoughts below and be part of this empowering journey.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Introduction
00:34 - Financial Stress and Mental Health
05:25 - Tips for Coping with Financial Stress
06:49 – Closing Thoughts
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How to Be A Bold Advocate On Your Child's Healthcare Journey

Be a BOLD advocate on your child’s healthcare journey. You’ll need practical strategies and confidence. In this engaging conversation, I sit down down with pharmacist and patient safety expert Lydia Molinara to uncover the ACE Method—Advocate, Communicate, Educate. This proven approach helps parents navigate healthcare scenarios, ensuring their children’s safety and well-being.
 
Lydia shares valuable insights from her 30+ years of experience, including her personal journey as a mom and how trusting your instincts can make all the difference. She shares the right questions to ask your doctor and tips to help you avoid common medication mistakes.  This episode is packed with actionable advice for raising healthy kids, on purpose, with a peace of mind.
 
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
01:14 - Lydia's Passion for Patient Safety
02:38 - Role of a Patient Safety Officer
12:59 - Understanding the ACE Method
19:37 - Medication Mistakes Parents Make
27:25 - Telehealth Innovations and AI
30:38 - Navigating Healthcare Cost Barriers
33:48 - Protecting Your Child from Healthcare Harm
35:30 - Connecting with Lydia Online
37:36 – Closing Thoughts
 
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