The Parenting 411 Podcast

How To Talk To Kids About War and Violence

Parenting can feel overwhelming when the world outside seems chaotic. In this thought-provoking conversation, I share valuable insights and practical strategies to help you talk to your children about war, violence, and tough news stories in a way that fosters resilience, understanding, and hope. Learn how to approach these challenging topics with purposeful parenting, tailoring your message to your child's age, managing your own emotions, and creating a sense of safety and connection within your family.
Let’s build a foundation of truth, safety, and hope for our children while modeling faith, resilience, and authenticity. What do you think about the ideas I presented. Share your thoughts below.  You don’t need all the answers—you just need to show up. You're not alone in this journey. Let’s do this together!
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Talking to Kids About War and Violence
01:21 - Importance of Parental Guidance
06:14 - Managing Children's Fear
07:56 - Shifting Fear to Empathy
11:05 - Understanding Legal Considerations
 
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Connection Before Correction: 5 Tips for Communicating Better with Your Kids

Why don’t kids listen, and more importantly, how can we fix it? In this episode, I share practical strategies and valuable insights to navigate one of parenting’s most common challenges. Drawing from personal experiences and research, this video dives deep into purposeful parenting, helping you build stronger, more cooperative relationships with your children.
Explore some essential elements of connection—emotional safety, clear communication, consistent boundaries, positive reinforcement, and intentional parenting—to transform how you relate to your kids. Learn how these strategies can create a foundation of trust, respect, and collaboration within your family.
Whether you're a working mom, stay-at-home parent, or somewhere in between, this episode offers the tools you need to raise confident, compassionate, and capable children. Parenting is a journey of growth for both you and your child. Let’s embrace the messy, yet sacred and rewarding, work of raising children with faith, purpose, and intention.
Share your thoughts below, and don’t forget to like and share this video with other parents navigating similar challenges. You’ve got this—and we’re here to support you every step of the way!
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Why Kids Don't Listen
03:52 - Establishing Consistent Boundaries
06:04 - Effective Positive Reinforcement Techniques
07:06 - Intentional Parenting Practices
09:22 - Research-Backed Strategies for Better Listening
10:17 - Your Parenting Toolkit for Intentionality
12:12 - Final Thoughts on Parenting Strategies
13:51 - Closing
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5 Ways to Prevent Parental Burnout

Parenting can be overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to lead to burnout. In this crucial conversation, I’m sharing 5 easy and research-backed ways to prevent parental burnout and rediscover joy in your parenting journey. From practical strategies like “special time” with your child to embracing purposeful parenting by setting realistic expectations, this episode offers valuable insights, is you can navigate challenges and build resilience as a parent. We’ll uncover the signs of burnout, common triggers like perfectionism and lack of support, and how to reframe your mindset to create a sustainable, balanced family life.
You might be raising children as a single parent or juggling work and family. Or you might just be feeling drained. If any of these situations match your reality right now, these tips will help you prioritize self-care, strengthen your connection with your kids, and find peace amidst the chaos of parenting. Tune in for actionable advice, heartwarming encouragement, and a reminder that parenting is about presence, not perfection. Share your thoughts below. What strategies help you stay resilient in your parenting journey? Let’s navigate this together!
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CHAPTERS:00:00 - What is Parental Burnout05:22 - How to Prevent Parental Burnout11:22 - Closing
 
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Parenting Teens: From Battles to Bridge Building

Parenting teens doesn’t have to feel like a constant battle. In this stimulating conversation, I  uncover how to transform those challenging years into an opportunity for growth, connection, and resilience. Tune in for valuable insights and practical strategies for navigating the teen years with purpose and compassion.
From understanding the science behind the teenage brain to offering actionable tips on setting boundaries and fostering emotional connections, this episode equips you with tools to build stronger family relationships. You’ll hear my stories, including how I supported my own sons through tough decisions, and discover how shifting from control to connection can create lasting bonds. Whether you’re navigating challenges with your teen or looking to embrace purposeful parenting, this episode is packed with tips on raising children in today’s fast-paced world.
You don't want to miss our strategies on balancing technology, encouraging emotional growth, and preparing your teen for life’s big moments. Share your thoughts below—Did I miss anything?
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Introduction
01:24 - Teen Years: Opportunities for Growth
07:47 - Parenting in the Digital Age: Tips for Online Success
13:18 - Final Thoughts on Parenting
 
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Depleted Mother Syndrome: Signs & Solutions for Recovery

Are you running on empty and longing to regain balance in your parenting journey? In this stimulating conversation on "Depleted Mother Syndrome: Signs & Solutions for Recovery," I unpack the exhaustion that so many mothers—and caregivers—face today. From recognizing physical and emotional burnout to understanding its root causes, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for healing and thriving as a family.
Join me as we explore the signs of depleted mother syndrome, the societal pressures that intensify it, and the small yet powerful steps you can take to prioritize rest, reclaim joy, and nurture resilience. Whether it’s asking for help, simplifying your routine, or finding time to reconnect with yourself, these purposeful parenting strategies are designed to help you navigate challenges while raising children with authenticity and love.
Let’s break the silence around this all-too-common struggle and create a supportive community where parents feel empowered, not alone. Share your thoughts below—what resonates most with you? Tune in for empowering advice and actionable steps to bring peace, purpose, and strength back to your parenting journey. Your family deserves the best of you, and you deserve to feel whole again.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:40 - What is Depleted Mother Syndrome
04:30 - Triggers of Depleted Mother Syndrome
06:48 - Importance of Depleted Mother Syndrome
07:38 - 5 Tips for Recovery from Depleted Mother Syndrome
08:37 - Tip 1: Prioritize Rest for Recovery
09:02 - Tip 2: Accept Help and Support
09:53 - Tip 3: Reclaim Personal Time
10:42 - Tip 4: Simplify Your Life
11:20 - Tip 5: Seek Professional Support
12:24 - Recovery Strategies for Depleted Mother Syndrome
13:12 - Closing
 
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The Secret to Clearer, Conflict-Free Conversations at Home

Discover how to untangle family communication and build stronger connections with this simple yet powerful tool! Today, I welcome Angela Myers, a nationally recognized speaker, family life educator, and parent coach. Together, we explore practical strategies to transform tangled communication into a beautiful tapestry of understanding, connection, and resilience. Angela shares her expertise on transactional analysis—a game-changing approach to navigating challenges in family communication.
Learn how to identify invisible patterns beneath everyday interactions and use purposeful parenting techniques to raise resilient, responsible, and happy children. Maybe you/'re struggling with misunderstandings or striving to create deeper bonds within your family. This episode is packed with insights and actionable advice to help you reach your goals.
Tune in to uncover how to approach conversations with intention and clarity, empowering you to nurture authentic relationships at home. Share your thoughts below—what strategies will you try first? Don’t miss this inspiring episode filled with practical wisdom for parents and families. Let’s keep connecting, learning, and parenting with heart! #communicationskills
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Introduction
02:51 - Effective Communication Strategies
09:15 - Expert Recommendations by P411
11:10 - The Three Pillars of Communication
12:06 - Understanding Ego States
19:46 - Transactional Analysis: Complimentary vs Crossed
25:04 - Deliberate Communication Techniques
27:24 - The Power of Choice in Conversations
28:42 - Building Strong Relationships
33:00 - Adulthood: A Central Command for Life
34:42 - Identifying Your Current State
37:32 - Parenting Insights: Lessons Learned
41:51 - Future Plans for Angela
42:56 - Connecting with Angela Online
43:55 - Closing Thoughts
 
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Healing Your Money Trauma to Raise Wealth-Savvy Kids

Are you ready to raise kids who are confident with money 💰 and empowered to build a financially stable future? Join me as I sit down with money coach Kim Kent for a reflective conversation packed with valuable insights and practical strategies for purposeful parenting. 
Kim gets REAL about her journey of overcoming financial setbacks, healing emotional money trauma, and transforming her mindset to empower families to thrive. We discuss how childhood experiences shape financial beliefs, how parents can break the cycle of scarcity thinking, and steps families can take to instill resilience, confidence, and healthy money habits in their children.
This episode offers real-world examples, actionable tips, and heartfelt advice on navigating challenges like teaching kids the value of money, setting boundaries without guilt, and building a legacy of abundance. Tune in to discover how you can reframe your money mindset and help your children grow into financially savvy adults.
What strategies do you use to teach your kids about money? Share your thoughts below, and don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with friends and family who want to raise confident, empowered kids!
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CHAPTERS:00:00 - Introducing Kim Kent01:17 - Kim's Personal Journey with Money06:21 - Learning Money Management Skills09:52 - Parents and Money Anxieties18:00 - Impact of Unspoken Messages on Kids19:46 - Money Myths: "Doesn’t Grow on Trees"20:59 - Divorce and Money Mindset Effects21:50 - Setting Positive Boundaries with Kids24:10 - Saying No to Kids Positively28:25 - Thoughts on Allowance Practices34:49 - Effective Money Management Strategies40:00 - Inspiring Success Stories45:37 - Raising Financially Confident Kids48:23 - Current Financial Well-Being51:38 - Following Kim Kent Online53:17 - Closing
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What is Maternal Ambivalence?

What if the secret to being a good mother isn’t loving every single moment but embracing the messy, complicated emotions that come with raising children? In this insightful conversation, I sit down with Dr. Margo Lowy, psychotherapist, mother of three, and author of Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments and Bitter Truths of Motherhood. Together, we take a look at the often-hidden realities of motherhood, from joy and love to guilt, anger, and resentment, dismantling the myth of the perfect parent along the way. Dr. Lowy shares valuable insights on how acknowledging and navigating maternal ambivalence can transform our mental health, deepen our connection with our children, and help us parent with purpose. Through relatable examples and practical strategies, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on what it truly means to be a mother in today’s world. Maybe you’re balancing work and family. Or facing societal pressures. Perhaps, you’re simply seeking to understand yourself better. If this sounds like you, this conversation will inspire you to embrace your authentic parenting journey. Tune in to discover how to navigate the challenges of motherhood with resilience, compassion, and humor. Share your thoughts below—how do you embrace the full spectrum of emotions in parenting? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join The Parenting 411 Community for more purposeful parenting insights. Let’s redefine motherhood together!
 
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Fear of Discussing Dark Emotions in Motherhood
02:35 - Understanding Maternal Ambivalence
07:31 - Embracing Emotions and Mental Health
11:27 - Importance of Laughter in Motherhood
13:52 - Experiences of Stay-at-Home vs. Working Moms
18:03 - Realizations of Maternal Ambivalence
22:50 - Journey to Understanding Maternal Ambivalence
25:40 - Overview of Summer Bridge Books
26:29 - Discussion on Little Fires Everywhere
32:42 - Daily Practices for Managing Ambivalence
39:05 - Role of Support Systems for Moms
44:28 - Following Dr. Margot, online
46:23 - Closing
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"I'm Not One of Your Little Friends" - Parent Now, Pal Later!

Parenting is about purpose, not popularity. In this perspective-shifting conversation, I explore why "being a parent, not a pal" is one of the most impactful choices you can make for your child’s future. Join me as I unpack the importance of setting boundaries, providing guidance, and fostering resilience to help raise well-rounded, confident children.
Through personal experiences and practical strategies, I share how purposeful parenting can strengthen family bonds while preparing kids for the challenges of adulthood. Listen as I reflect on the lessons learned from navigating tough moments, like holding my son accountable for a critical school project, and discover why kids thrive when parents prioritize wisdom, structure, and love over constant agreement.
From creating security through boundaries to modeling responsible behavior, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you embrace your role as a nurturer, caregiver, and coach. Are you ready to take on the challenge of parenting with intention? Share your thoughts below, and let’s start building a legacy of strength, authenticity, and faith for our families.
Tune in now for practical strategies and inspiration to guide your parenting journey!
 
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - I'm Not One of Your Little Friends
02:44 - My Personal Experience in Parenting
06:12 - Three Important Parenting Lessons Learned
08:48 - Your Challenge for the Week
09:29 - Closing
 
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Faith Filled Parenting

Parenting can be overwhelming, but keeping faith at the center can transform your journey into something truly powerful. In this thoughtful conversation, I welcome Kelly Bell, a devoted mom of four, educator, and kingdom strategist, to share valuable insights and practical strategies for purposeful parenting.
Together, we dive into how to raise faith-filled families, navigate life’s challenges, and create a legacy rooted in resilience, authenticity, and grace. Kelly opens up about her daily routines, like prayer-filled mornings and meaningful family traditions, and offers heartfelt advice for moms struggling to balance faith and the demands of parenting.
From fostering Christ-like patience to building a supportive community, this episode is packed with actionable steps and uplifting encouragement for parents everywhere. Tune in to discover how to weave faith into your daily life, stay grounded amidst chaos, and inspire your children to embrace their God-given purpose. Learn more about Kelley Bell at www.kelleyjbell.com.
Share your thoughts below and let us know how you incorporate faith into your parenting journey! 💖
 
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Introduction
01:36 - Keeping God at the Center of Family Life
06:32 - Encouragement for Raising Godly Kids
08:31 - Modeling Patience and Forgiveness at Home
11:15 - Ensuring Personal Spiritual Nourishment
14:15 - Finding Your Community and Support
16:40 - Trusting God with Your Kids' Future
22:53 - Addressing Kids' Faith Questions
26:36 - Final Thoughts for Moms
28:48 - Connecting with Kelly J. Bell
29:35 - Closing
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